How to get the most out of your family photoshoot

The most difficult thing about being photographed is allowing the photographer a glimpse into the unguarded version of yourself. The version of you that sometimes only creeps out when you’re alone in front of the mirror. The vulnerable you. 

The most difficult thing about being a photographer is creating a space where your subjects let you into that sacred, authentic place driven by real, raw emotion. 

The number one thing that will make your shoot with me the best it can possibly be lies in your ability to relax, tune into your family/partner and forget about the camera. The more that you can engage with your loved ones and just be completely in the moment, the better your photos will turn out. 

I know how tempting it is to try and get your kids to do something that you think will look good for the camera, but the reality is, that if you let them just be, and you smile and join them at their level, engaging with what they are doing, your photos will convey your connection. Dynamic images are captivating, it’s great if your kids are moving around, or if you and your partner change up your position or scene. The more we move around and explore the more opportunities we have to capture unique images. 

There’s no need to look at the camera, or get your kids to look at the camera - I’ll let you know if I want you to look, but for the most part I just want to witness you doing you, I’ll find the moments within that and snap them up.

It can be really helpful to have some ideas up your sleeve for prompts to engage your kids, just in case you’re feeling a bit nervous to start with. I always send my clients an information pack with a list of ideas to help them prepare and have something to work from. 

How to get the most out of your shoot

• Relax, forget the camera is there and connect with your family

• Don’t look at the camera unless your photographer asks you to

• Go with the flow, let the kids do their thing and smile while you watch them!

• Embrace movement and change, mix it up and change your position to keep images interesting and unique

• Have a few ideas for prompts on your mind to give you a place to start if you’re feeling awkward

• Trust your photographer - we’ve got this!